
Our farewell party with our new friends from Donetsk
We’re currently in Dnepropetrovsk, Ukraine. We had a great time in Donetsk. Rebecca B. has the story.
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We’ve been in Ukraine for a few days, and there hasn’t been a dull moment. From the moment we landed, we have been welcomed with enthusiasm and eagerness from our Ukrainian peers. We literally walked off the plane and were instantly greeted with huge signs and Ukrainian challah from about 20 excited Ukrainian Hillel Students.
After lots of photos with our new friends, we all got on the bus and headed to our hotel in Donetsk. The hotel was surprisingly great; it is called the Liverpool and is completely themed after the Beatles.
After putting our stuff down and freshening up, we headed to the JDC Hesed center where we formally met the Ukrainian participants. They explained to us the purpose of the Hesed center and how it’s brought them all together.
We watched a video about how the service provided helps so many people and really makes a huge impact in the lives of struggling Ukrainians. Although we were exhausted from the day-long plane ride, it was fascinating to learn about and meet the Ukrainian students.
Eventually we made our way to the restaurant for dinner. Dinner was definitely an experience; the food was Russian style and extremely foreign to the food we experience in the US.
While I made it a point to try all of the interesting Russian food, I think my palette is too American for all these novelties.
After dinner we had a “baby” themed party. We played a bunch of games that allowed us to get to know the Ukrainian students better and eat tons of candy at the same time! We passed around cotton candy as we laughed about each other’s funniest childhood stories.
Towards the end they showed us a slideshow with all our and their baby photos that they had put together as a surprise.
Finally we left the location and headed back to the hotel; we loved meeting the Ukrainians, but the lack of sleep was catching up with us.
Back at the hotel most of quickly went to sleep, while some of us continued to hang out with the Ukrainian students who were also staying in the hotel with us. It’s so much fun learning about the culture differences between students in the Ukraine and the US.
Fortunately, regardless to our differences we are all about to come together with our common goals and make a difference; this was especially apparent the next day.
We woke up early in the morning, ate a delicious Ukrainian breakfast, and headed to the Hesed center for a full day of service.
We broke into five groups along with the Ukrainian students, and were given tasks to complete. I was on the Red team and we were in charge of rehabilitating wheelchairs and cleaning them up so that they can be used. Other groups worked on re-building a warehouse, creating desks, fixing up walkers and canes, and repairing the bathroom.

Our refurbished wheelchairs at the JDC medical warehouse in Donetsk
At some point during the day, the truck of matzah arrived and we all took a break to unload it. We intend to distribute the matzah to the Ukrainian Jews so that they can happily participate and celebrate Passover, even in hard times.

Preparing matzo boxes for delivery to Hesed clients
It was so stimulating to see how the Ukrainian students and leaders worked together. They seem to still have a strong sense of women roles vs. men roles rather than the American view point that “anything goes”.
I personally loved working with the Ukrainian students even though the language barrier was definitely apparent. Only a hand full of the students can speak some English so it’s been a lot of fun figuring out other ways to communicate.
At another point during the day we had a tea and coffee break while getting the opportunity to ask some of the elderly Ukrainian Jews about their lives. Then we all got up and sang and danced together; I was surprised but also delighted that the elderly woman danced with us.
I really enjoyed spinning around and dancing with them. After we finished our tasks for the day we took about two hours to reflect on our experience thus far. Everything happens so quickly, so it’s nice to just sit and think about what we’ve done and what we want to accomplish on this trip.
We also discussed what it means to belong to a community and the importance of it. Even though it was just our University of Maryland group, it was interesting to see the different perspectives each of us had.
After our time of reflection, we walked back to the Beatles hotel and prepared for our exciting and surprising night out! Although we knew we were going to a “Russian Banya” we really had no idea what that would entail.
But it was honestly amazing! We entered this gorgeous two leveled pool house. There were hot tubs and saunas and obviously a huge pool. And the best part was the massive waterslide that started on the top floor and lead down into the pool. First we went upstairs and were greeted by a luau style dinner party.
Unlike most of the food this far, it was a very American dinner consisting of fries, chicken, and vegetables. After dinner we were all anxious to get into the water. Some of us relaxed in the hot tubs while others kept enjoying the massive water slide. We even had competitions in the pool; Marisa, Dillion, and Talia definitely represented the US well when they dominated in the water competition!
The actual “Russian Banya” was nothing as we expected; besides the pools and hot tubs, there was a sauna room that the Ukrainians referred to as “the banya”. It felt like an American sauna and they kept telling us how good it was for you to sit in it for a while.
However, after about five minutes I had to take a breather from the banya. We played lots of games, danced to the music, and had a great dessert. This again was a great way for us to really get to know the Ukrainian students and interact with them.
Some time after 11pm we all went back to the hotel and showered off “the banya”. Considering we are only here for a week we wanted to cease all the opportunity, so we all got dressed and went to a local café to hang out for an hour or so. It’s amazing how quickly we were able to connect to the Ukrainian students even though there was an obvious language barrier.
So far the trip has been absolutely amazing. Each moment is eye opening and invigorating. I love being with the Ukrainian students and helping out the elderly people supported by JDC. This is a trip that I’ll never forget and the journey has only just begun!

Ice skating in Donetsk